For our final team bash and to celebrate a birthday, we went to Pizza Hut. Classy, I know. But really, it's the classiest thing we've got around here. We take what we can get!
We were finished eating and Josiah had gotten down to play with his cars. In the aisle, of course. Soon, a family came in and sat in a booth across from us. The little guy (1.5) had split pants on. Nothing new. But it's what his momma did next that made me turn my head and cover my eyes. She plopped his bare bottom (and other parts that hang out) ONTO the table!!
To her defense, the Chinese see the table and floor as equals: both for trash. So I'm sure she wasn't going to let their food touch the table....but, still.
If you're unaware of what split pants are, click here. I'm afraid if I post a pic, I'll get flagged for having an inappropriate blog. :)
Do you wonder why they use such pants? Because they potty train their babies at about 6mos! It's amazing, really. (Minus the whole pants part.) The grandma (who is usually the caretaker so parents can work) will watch for the baby's cues to learn when they need to use the bathroom. Often, they'll make a whistling noise to correlate with the action. The pants make it easy to help the child go potty anywhere, anytime. :)
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Friday, June 1, 2012
Seeds
It just hit me tonight that we'll be leaving here (probably) for good. 2 years isn't a long time to be in one place, but we still connected with a lot of people. And another round of good-byes begins.
We had our last Coffee House event tonight. We (the team, with Michael on guitar) sang a song in Chinese for the students that was about how bad our Chinese was. They got a kick out of it. :) They started pulling out their cameras before we even got on stage!
Afterwards, there were many pictures. What do they do with those anyway?! A couple of girls were there that I'm quite close to. One, in particular. She has been Michael's student for 2 years. We've hung out a lot, she's been to both of Josiah's birthday parties, and she loves my kids to pieces. (Her classmates tease her that it's on the brink of obsession. haha)
After we took our picture tonight, she hugged me. This is odd for the Chinese. They don't hug. Especially a Westerner. But she hugged me. At least 5 times. Long hugs. On the last one, she started to cry. I promised we'd get together again before we leave.
As far as I know, she doesn't have a relationship with the Father. I can only hope that she has seen His light through my life these past 2 years and perhaps that's why she's sad we're leaving. May He continue to work in her heart. I hope it wasn't "good-bye" tonight, rather "see you later" in a rockin' place upstairs!!
We had our last Coffee House event tonight. We (the team, with Michael on guitar) sang a song in Chinese for the students that was about how bad our Chinese was. They got a kick out of it. :) They started pulling out their cameras before we even got on stage!
Afterwards, there were many pictures. What do they do with those anyway?! A couple of girls were there that I'm quite close to. One, in particular. She has been Michael's student for 2 years. We've hung out a lot, she's been to both of Josiah's birthday parties, and she loves my kids to pieces. (Her classmates tease her that it's on the brink of obsession. haha)
After we took our picture tonight, she hugged me. This is odd for the Chinese. They don't hug. Especially a Westerner. But she hugged me. At least 5 times. Long hugs. On the last one, she started to cry. I promised we'd get together again before we leave.
As far as I know, she doesn't have a relationship with the Father. I can only hope that she has seen His light through my life these past 2 years and perhaps that's why she's sad we're leaving. May He continue to work in her heart. I hope it wasn't "good-bye" tonight, rather "see you later" in a rockin' place upstairs!!
Thursday, May 31, 2012
Lots of Milestones!
Josiah:
- Turned 3 last week! (Separate post to follow...when I have time. HA!)
- Went cold turkey with his "minky"! We've been preparing him for a few weeks that when he turned 3, he'd throw away all his pacifiers. (Truth: we're keeping one ONLY for an emergency {aka all-out tantrum} on the 15 hour plane ride home.) He hasn't been happy about it. Every time he goes down for a nap or bed, he begs for it. He'll stop asking eventually......right?!
- Is staying dry through the night more often! I claimed he was potty-trained a while ago, but then he took some steps backwards with nighttime. I was tired of washing his sheets and undies so often, so we went back to a pull-up. This week, he's kept it dry several times on his own!
Malachi:
- Taught himself how to sleep through the night. HALLELUIA!! I've said many times before that this one just isn't a great sleeper. I gave up a long time ago trying to "teach" him how to sleep well. It just hasn't worked. A few weeks ago, he slept til 5 or 6am a few days in a row. My body rejoiced!! Now, some days he'll sleep in til 7am...or even 9am! I barely know what to do with myself.
- Is beginning the switch to 2 naps, but hasn't gotten the hang of it yet, so some days we still do 3.
- Crawling. I know, he's on the late train for this one, but it's partly our fault for not setting him down during his fussy eczema days. (which, by the way is still GONE! PTL) His crawl is hilarious. He scoots on his belly like a seal, but only uses his right leg to push. His left leg kinda dangles to the side or in the air. Hilarious. I'll work on a video soon.
- 1st hair cut! We waited until Josiah was 15mos for his, but Malachi's hair was just getting too crazy and weird-looking. He did great!
- Turned 3 last week! (Separate post to follow...when I have time. HA!)
- Went cold turkey with his "minky"! We've been preparing him for a few weeks that when he turned 3, he'd throw away all his pacifiers. (Truth: we're keeping one ONLY for an emergency {aka all-out tantrum} on the 15 hour plane ride home.) He hasn't been happy about it. Every time he goes down for a nap or bed, he begs for it. He'll stop asking eventually......right?!
- Is staying dry through the night more often! I claimed he was potty-trained a while ago, but then he took some steps backwards with nighttime. I was tired of washing his sheets and undies so often, so we went back to a pull-up. This week, he's kept it dry several times on his own!
Malachi:
- Taught himself how to sleep through the night. HALLELUIA!! I've said many times before that this one just isn't a great sleeper. I gave up a long time ago trying to "teach" him how to sleep well. It just hasn't worked. A few weeks ago, he slept til 5 or 6am a few days in a row. My body rejoiced!! Now, some days he'll sleep in til 7am...or even 9am! I barely know what to do with myself.
- Is beginning the switch to 2 naps, but hasn't gotten the hang of it yet, so some days we still do 3.
- Crawling. I know, he's on the late train for this one, but it's partly our fault for not setting him down during his fussy eczema days. (which, by the way is still GONE! PTL) His crawl is hilarious. He scoots on his belly like a seal, but only uses his right leg to push. His left leg kinda dangles to the side or in the air. Hilarious. I'll work on a video soon.
- 1st hair cut! We waited until Josiah was 15mos for his, but Malachi's hair was just getting too crazy and weird-looking. He did great!
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| "Mooommmmaa, what are you doing!?" |
Monday, May 21, 2012
Friday, May 18, 2012
Malachi's Happy Dance
Most kids this age (almost 9mos) will hold out their arms when they want to be held, or when I hold out my arms, signaling the question if he wants to be picked up. Not Malachi.
He does a happy dance.
If he's in his exersaucer, he jumps up and down, squealing in delight, arms flailing. If he's sitting on the floor, he just squeals and flaps. I laugh every time.
I promise I don't neglect the child. Actually, he's probably in my arms more than Josiah ever was because it's just easier to hold him than listen to his fusses. He's a mover and a shaker--no doubt about it. But he wants to move and shake within someone's arms. Go figure.
He does a happy dance.
If he's in his exersaucer, he jumps up and down, squealing in delight, arms flailing. If he's sitting on the floor, he just squeals and flaps. I laugh every time.
I promise I don't neglect the child. Actually, he's probably in my arms more than Josiah ever was because it's just easier to hold him than listen to his fusses. He's a mover and a shaker--no doubt about it. But he wants to move and shake within someone's arms. Go figure.
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Mother's Day
Mother's Day was great! The night before, Michael told me I could escape the house/kids/duties and go have breakfast by myself. I know this sort of defeats what Mother's Day is all about....but it's exactly what I needed!
As soon as I got up and fed the babe, I was out the door. I biked to the McDonald's across town (30 minutes). It was a great, peaceful ride with glorious weather. This particular McDonald's has a McCafe, which is why I chose to go there. REAL coffee!
I got my breakfast (not the healthiest, but still a treat for my taste buds) and tried to eat it slowly. It was hard! I'm so used to scarfing so I can help a little one. Then I ordered a mocha latte. Mm. McDonald's isn't my favorite coffee, but when it's the only legit choice around me, it tastes awesome! Then I busted out my iPod and journal. I don't take the time to write down my thoughts/feelings very often. It was nice to process through some things while listening to worship music. I had to turn up the volume REALLY loud to drown out the noise and music around me. (Despite how innocent they look, the Chinese are very loud people.) A couple of times, I got so wrapped up in a song, I nearly started singing! I should've; everyone was watching my every move anyway! Then I read a bit of John and a few chapters in a novel. I was bummed that my 2 hours were up by the end. But sooo thankful I got the time away and to myself!
While the kids napped, Michael said he was going to run an errand. He came back with a huge bouquet of lilies and roses. They are still perfuming our apartment and hallway. :) He also ordered a box of cereal for me. Sounds random, but good cereal is rare and expensive!
Sunday nights we always have team time and it happened to be "southern" food. YUM. Fried chicken, corn on the cob, mac n cheese, strawberry spinach salad, biscuits, and sweet tea. OH MY. My tummy was happy!
It was a fun day. So thankful to be blessed with 2 little guys!
As soon as I got up and fed the babe, I was out the door. I biked to the McDonald's across town (30 minutes). It was a great, peaceful ride with glorious weather. This particular McDonald's has a McCafe, which is why I chose to go there. REAL coffee!
I got my breakfast (not the healthiest, but still a treat for my taste buds) and tried to eat it slowly. It was hard! I'm so used to scarfing so I can help a little one. Then I ordered a mocha latte. Mm. McDonald's isn't my favorite coffee, but when it's the only legit choice around me, it tastes awesome! Then I busted out my iPod and journal. I don't take the time to write down my thoughts/feelings very often. It was nice to process through some things while listening to worship music. I had to turn up the volume REALLY loud to drown out the noise and music around me. (Despite how innocent they look, the Chinese are very loud people.) A couple of times, I got so wrapped up in a song, I nearly started singing! I should've; everyone was watching my every move anyway! Then I read a bit of John and a few chapters in a novel. I was bummed that my 2 hours were up by the end. But sooo thankful I got the time away and to myself!
While the kids napped, Michael said he was going to run an errand. He came back with a huge bouquet of lilies and roses. They are still perfuming our apartment and hallway. :) He also ordered a box of cereal for me. Sounds random, but good cereal is rare and expensive!
Sunday nights we always have team time and it happened to be "southern" food. YUM. Fried chicken, corn on the cob, mac n cheese, strawberry spinach salad, biscuits, and sweet tea. OH MY. My tummy was happy!
It was a fun day. So thankful to be blessed with 2 little guys!
Monday, May 7, 2012
Goodbye, eczema!
It's almost gone. HALLELUJAH! His face is nearly clear. His elbows are soft. He legs are sooo close! His knees have tiny little patches that keep getting irritated because he's starting to scoot across the floor. We started putting on some "knee pads" (actually those sweat soakers tennis players wear on their wrists--what are those called?!), but he gets his lil fingers underneath them anyway.
Here are some pics to show the how bad it was..and how GOOD it is now! I seriously think he's cuter with clear skin. :)
We do have to be very careful, though. This week, after his skin cleared, he must've brushed his cheek against something with soap or chemicals because a few bumps came up. Grr! It's going to be tough this summer with so many wanting to hold him! My aunt had a great idea to make a smock to make people wear. :) Hey, it's either they wear it or they don't get to hold him!! I'm sort of hoping he'll be on the move too much to want to be held, anyway.
Here are some pics to show the how bad it was..and how GOOD it is now! I seriously think he's cuter with clear skin. :)
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| Getting bad... |
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| At its worst..scaly, bleeding from scratching..yuk! |
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| Yet, still smiling. |
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| Getting better..! Notice it's in a heart shape. haha |
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| HOORAY for clear skin!!!! |
We do have to be very careful, though. This week, after his skin cleared, he must've brushed his cheek against something with soap or chemicals because a few bumps came up. Grr! It's going to be tough this summer with so many wanting to hold him! My aunt had a great idea to make a smock to make people wear. :) Hey, it's either they wear it or they don't get to hold him!! I'm sort of hoping he'll be on the move too much to want to be held, anyway.
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